December 2, 2014. Xander's living the life in San Francisco, California. It's not the high life or the low life but it's a life - and the alive state of Xander Harris in 2014 hasn't always been a foregone conclusion, so he'll take it. It's also a celibate life but sometimes a guy's just gotta do what a guy's gotta do even if it means not getting done. He's still white hat enough for that.