Hi all. I'm looking for a fic I read a while ago. It had Xander coming out to Willow, and her setting him up with all these blind dates. After a bunch of bad dates, she sets him up with Spike. I think that one of the dates was with a surfer-dude type of person, but I could be wrong.

And while I'm here, does anyone have any other recs where Xander is the Gay Scooby, and how he deals with it? Something like the wonderful and epic "Sidelines" by Anna S., but also any other variations on the theme that exist out there.