1. Spike notices submissive tendencies when Xander sleeps and takes advantage of it to train him. At one point Spike saves Xander from his father and there is an old Chinese woman (maybe not human - don't remember) who helps Xander. I think that Spike and Xander end up getting an apartment together.
2. This one has abused Xander as well. Spike & Xander move into a mansion that Spike owns. I think that Xander's father at one point hunts him down to abuse him some more. Buffy helps Spike get past the pain in his chip so he can torture Xander dad. I think that there is something about finding a way to make Xander immortal so that they can stay together with him being turned.
3. I would also like if any one can point me to any other good fics containing bonding, dominant!Spike (as long as it isn't simply abusive), abused Xander saved by spike, Spike & xander against Buffy and/or Angel, or any other fics that you think that no Spike/Xander fan should miss (I prefer really long fics but will be happy with whatever I can get).
Thanks in advance.