All I remember from the first one is Spike dragging Xander around the mall and Xander being seriously embarrassed... something about a fitting for a suit and the guy doing the fitting was uhh... free with his hands. Though I don't know if it was Spike or Xander actually getting... fitted.
And the second one had Xander as the parent figure of a small group of misfit demons. One... maybe two vampires and something big with fur... not a were though... and possibly blue?
Sorry that's not much to go on, and I'll call you ten kinds of amazing if you can work out what ones I'm talking about based on those descriptions.